Healing Birth Trauma

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Written by Ellen Valentine, NC

Saturday, 25 July 2009 10:46

by EllenValentine,NC

We are all sentient creatures, and because of that we FEEL our way through life by memorizing how life works for us based on those feelings. Our feeling nature dictates to us whether certain courses of action feel good or bad. When did all of that start? How far back can a person remember when healing habits that no longer serve their highest good? A bigger question is does it do any good to dive into that past to bring up "stuff"? It is not for the purpose of pain to shed light on why we look at life in certain ways. It is for the purpose of exposing the causal thought and the energy behind so that it loses its power over us.

Without hypnosis, Ive had many of the hundreds of clients Ive seen over the past twenty years tell me theyve remembered sadness, joy and excitement, fear or apprehension before they were born. That tells me that babies in the womb are quite able to form ideas about life and about how life will be for them. Babies are clear-sensitive beings which mean they pick up on the intense feelings from the mother or conversations between mom and dad very easily. They also, though non-verbal, are forming thoughts which have energetic power behind them.

Having a happy baby means having a pleasant and hopeful pregnancy. It means sheltering an unborn from any and all abuse, mental, physical, and emotional. It also means that moms and dads to-be take a look at and heal something called their own birth trauma. Lets talk Birth Trauma. It is my observation so far that death and life are the biggies. That includes near death and illness leading up to death. Recollections of birth have been noted by me as: like going down a long tunnel, moving to the light, feeling as if being choked, wishing I could make it easier for everyone involved, especially mom, feelings of freezing to death, etc.

Babies are so clear and sentient. That is basically how we all gauge life and especially so when we are small. Sometimes even a mother's frown can make a small child cry, so it's no wonder that a newborn is picking up all the energy in a delivery room. If the room is filled with doctors, family and other attendees who are frightened or apprehensive, then the child will also feel like life is a scary place to be simply because they are so clear-sentient.

When birth trauma is intense in some way it is likely, not always probable because each person is divine and unique, that those early thoughts about life, how it works, if it is supportive or life threatening will attract more experiences into that beings life to affirm that energetic vibration. After a person grows and has language skills those creations are affirmed by the person as oh, that happens to me all the time; thats how it is for me. I call it being stuck in a position.

Patterns of aberrated energy can always be shifted, let go of, realized as no longer important to have around with techniques like Rebirthing Breath, Sedona Method, Emotional Freedom Technique, and other likely releasing tools. I use Rebirthing Breath with clients, add a bit of my other tools for clean up, and use coaching for deciding and creating a new reality.

Breathwork is the best method to heal the earliest reasons for misdirected beliefs because it's what we had to do when we emerged from the womb. As our first task it is connected with all of the thoughts and feelings going on at that time. Consciously and connectedly breathing with a trained professional gives the confidence to release and let go, sometimes for the first time this lifetime. Releasing the breath releases the energetic power aberrated thoughts can have and makes way for coaching on deciding what you do want.

Really it is easier to get a child off to delicious start so they think of life as a wonderful adventure. Plan the year before conception for a series of ten sessions for both mom and dad. That can include mom and dad together at the end of the ten sessions. Each session is different for each person. You will always realize that neutral and non-judgemental space where life can be reconstructed mentally and energetically. It will create a room filled with awareness for the birth of your child. As we see new life emerge into visible form it is good to remember that all we are is energy, more space between the cells than cells. So good vibrations really do count.

Plan a Happy Birth, Ellen Valentine

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Ellen Valentine is a Life Transitions Coach based in Sacramento, CA. Ellen is a Nutritional Counselor, Author and has been a Rebirthing Facilitator and Trainer for twenty years. Coaching Wellness through Wholeness

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