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Make Your Ex Girlfriend Call You Back - Tips to Get Her Return Your Calls
Written by Mary White   
Wednesday, 15 July 2009 11:38
How can you make your ex girlfriend call you back ? If you are really in love with her you are probably doing what many guys do, calling your ex many times a day, text messaging or e-mailing constantly. But do you really think in this way you will make her return your calls and get your ex back ? Probably they will become more distant, defensive and angry.
by MaryWhite


How can you make your ex girlfriend call you back ? If you are really in love with her you are probably doing what many guys do, calling your ex many times a day, text messaging or e-mailing constantly. But do you really think in this way you will make her return your calls and get your ex back ? Probably they will become more distant, defensive and angry.

Which are the most important steps to follow to make your ex girlfriend return your calls and then to get her back ?

Stop all type of communication with her

This may sound counter intuitive, but it is one of the most clever things you can do after the breakup. The idea is to stop calling her, and focusing on improving your personal life, to feel better, instead of keeping thinking about your girlfriend and the reasons for the broken relationship. This can be difficult, but it is very important because the only way that your ex can start to miss you is if she does not receive phone calls, messages or e-mails every single day or several times a day.

Don't try to make your ex jealous

Perhaps you think that making your ex jealous will make her get back. But this is not a good idea. They will probably think you have moved on and forgot her. The intention of the previous tip was to improve your personal life so as to show your ex your are doing well, but not to make your ex jealous.

Use words to make your ex feel compelled to call you back

You can call your ex girlfriend after the period of no communication. But you have to think carefully the words to use in that occasion. We tend to phone her and start talking about what went wrong in the relationship. It is better if you can make her feel curiosity and self interest, saying something like : " Thank you for what you did for me. Call me back to do it in person". She will not be able to resist to call to know what you are thanking her for.

It is very important to have a plan before making such a call, you should know what to answer when she asks about what is the thing you appreciate she has done.

Following these tips your girlfriend will start to return your phone calls and you will start to dream about getting your ex back.

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